People come to The Desi Bride to connect with great South Asian-focused local businesses. We know that people won’t always agree, but we expect everyone on the site to treat one another and the platform with honesty and respect. We’ve put together these general guidelines to help set the tone for discourse on the site—just in case. Please also read the additional guidelines below for specific types of content that you might contribute to the site.
- Relevance: Please make sure your contributions are appropriate to the forum. For example, reviews aren’t the place for rants about political ideologies, a business’s employment practices, extraordinary circumstances, or other matters that don’t address the core of the client experience.
- Inappropriate content: There’s no place for threats, harassment, lewdness, hate speech, or other displays of bigotry as well as inappropriate images.
- Conflicts of interest: Your contributions to The Desi Bride should be unbiased and objective. For example, you shouldn’t write reviews of your own business or employer, your friends’ or relatives’ business, your peers or competitors in your industry, or businesses in your networking group.
- Privacy: Don’t publicize people’s private information. For instance, please don’t post close-up photos or videos of other patrons without their permission, and don’t post other people’s full names unless you’re referring to someone who is commonly referred to by their full name.
- Promotional content: Don’t post promotional material unless it’s in connection with The Desi Bride’s subscription program and through a Vendor Account. Let’s keep the site useful for consumers and not overrun with commercial noise from every user.
- Intellectual property: Don’t swipe content from other sites, users, or businesses. You’re a smart cookie, so write your own copy and share your own photos and videos. If you use images from other vendors, please give them credit.
The best reviews are personal, passionate, and reflect your client's experience. They offer a rich narrative, a wealth of detail, and a helpful tip or two for other clients or potential clients. Please note that The Desi Bride reaches out to recent brides and grooms for anonymous reviews without informing the vendor. Here are some additional thoughts for conscientious reviewers:
- Personal experience: We want to hear about your firsthand experience, not what you heard from your family or friend, or what you saw in the news. Tell your own story without resorting to broad generalizations and conclusory allegations.
- Accuracy: Make sure your review is factually correct. Feel free to air your opinions, but don’t exaggerate or misrepresent your experience. We don’t take sides when it comes to factual disputes, so we expect you to stand behind your review.
- Demanding payment: Writing a review should be informative and meant to help the broader Desi Bride community. You should not threaten to post or offer to remove a negative review as a way to extract payment from a business.
Photo and Video Guidelines
Photos and videos should be broadly relevant to the business and reflect the typical client experience (e.g., what your products and services look like at a South Asian wedding). If you’re a business, show us what you offer and what makes your business unique. Here are some additional things to keep in mind:
- Keep it relevant to everyone: We may remove a photo or video that showcases a unique personal experience that isn’t relevant to other people (e.g., images from non-South Asian weddings) from the photo gallery for the vendor.
- Keep it clean: We don’t want imagery of violence, drug use, nudity, near nudity, or suggestive acts.
- Keep it friendly: Don’t use your photos or videos to attack or disparage others. A picture is worth 1,000 words, so it’s best to pick those words carefully and make your point in a review, direct message, or review response.